The eulogy is love spoken over the ended — the words that gather a person for the room one last time. Giving one is grief's public office; hearing your own, the fantasy of attending your reception in absentia.
Positive Resonance
The person gathered in words, love spoken while the room listens
Shadow Aspect
Words owed in life delivered late, the eulogy said to the box
Nuances
Delivering the eulogy: grief's speaking office
Say it while they live: the eulogy's famous lesson
Hearing your own: the reception attended impossibly